Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Sérendipicité

sérendipicité : is the effect by which one accidentally discovers something fortunate, especially while looking for something entirely unrelated.

According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, when we're dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all move through five distinct stages of grief. We go into denial because the loss is so unthinkable we can't imagine it's true. We become angry with everyone, angry with survivors, angry with ourselves. Then we bargain. We beg. We plead. We offer everything we have, we offer our souls in exchange for just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall into depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that we've done everything we can. We let go. We let go and move into acceptance.

Meredith Grey.

You were a chance meeting that was good while it lasted but went wrong when it was time's up. I have officially become that girl I never thought I would be able to achieve. To realize and accept .
Because I have completed my 5 steps of grieve. We were this close to having endless drama today but hey, we pass that.

I never thought I could be where I am with my red pumping organ.
So thank you to my mates and the Man up there for supporting me.


xoxo, mandy.

PSSST: HOT UNREACHABLE MAN. ): HAHAHAHA. I NEED TO STUDY HARDDD AND REMEMBER MY THEORIES!!

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